My husband triggered me last week.
I went into full on panic/anger mode. He used our debit card to buy something and said he’d be reimbursing the main account. Literal panic – my neck tightened, my stomach lurched, and I saw red.
Holy shit, why was feeling this way? There was NO reason in the world for me to have this kind of a gut reaction to what he said. I remained very calm, didn’t react outwardly. But inside, I was in a tailspin.